Ryan Anderson is placing his variations with Ken Urker apart after studying of his dying. Gypsy Rose Blanchard’s ex-husband admitted he initially struggled to consider the information earlier than his consideration turned to Blanchard and her daughter, Aurora. Regardless of his strained historical past with Urker and having gone a couple of 12 months with out talking to his former spouse, Anderson mentioned he could be there for her if she wanted a buddy. He has already reached out to her household to move alongside that message.
Ryan Anderson Recollects His ‘Shock’ Over Ken Urker’s Loss of life
Anderson opened up throughout a Friday look on “The Sarah Fraser Show”, recalling his first response to listening to that Urker had died. “I didn’t consider it at first. I used to be like no. My preliminary thought was shock, like, ‘Hmm, how’d that occur?’” he mentioned.
Urker died at his Louisiana house on Thursday, October 1, his thirty fourth birthday. Police discovered drug paraphernalia and a gun on the scene. Blanchard has described his dying as a suspected overdose.
Anderson mentioned his concern rapidly shifted to the household Urker left behind, notably Blanchard and their daughter. “My rapid thought went to, ‘How’s Gypsy?’ My rapid thought was, ‘How’s she doing. And what about their child?’” he continued.
Blanchard and Urker welcomed Aurora in December 2024 after rekindling their relationship earlier that 12 months.
Anderson Says His Exchanges With Urker ‘Have been By no means Good’
Anderson didn’t faux he and Urker had been associates. He acknowledged that they “by no means actually noticed eye to eye,” though their disagreements by no means concerned an in-person assembly. “We by no means met in particular person, however we had exchanges on the telephone and we’ve had textual content messages. We’ve interacted and so they had been by no means good,” he mentioned.
Nonetheless, Anderson expressed unhappiness over Urker’s dying, expressing, “However you continue to hate to listen to that any individual handed away.”
The 2 males had been a part of totally different chapters in Blanchard’s life. Anderson married her whereas she was incarcerated, and their marriage ended after her launch. She then reunited with Urker, a former fiancé with whom she had first linked years earlier.
In the course of the interview, Anderson spoke brazenly about these troublesome exchanges earlier than returning to his concern for Blanchard and Aurora. He mentioned they had been his “primary concern” after listening to the information.
Blanchard’s Ex-Husband Reached Out To Her Father
Anderson mentioned he has not spoken to Blanchard in a couple of 12 months. Reasonably than contacting her immediately, he reached out to her father, Rod Blanchard, with condolences and a suggestion of assist. “I mentioned, ‘Hey, man, I’m listening to this information. If it’s true, inform Gypsy I’m sorry. Inform her I’m right here for her if she wants me,’” he recalled.
Anderson additionally spoke concerning the consolation he had offered throughout their relationship. “I used to be all the time any individual who might make her chuckle when she was unhappy or give her consolation.”
He mentioned he could be obtainable as a buddy if Blanchard determined to contact him, though he didn’t know whether or not she would. “I don’t know if she’s going to or not,” he added. “But when she does, I’d be there for her strictly as simply being there for her as a result of I all the time was.”
Gypsy Rose And Ken Reunited After Her Marriage Ended

Blanchard and Anderson married in June 2022 whereas she was serving time for her position within the 2015 homicide of her mom, Clauddine “Dee Dee” Blanchard. She was launched from jail in December 2023. The couple introduced their separation in March 2024, and weeks later, Blanchard confirmed that she and Urker had been again collectively.
Her historical past with Urker started properly earlier than her marriage to Anderson. Blanchard first linked with him whereas incarcerated in 2017, and so they grew to become engaged in October 2018 earlier than later separating. After reuniting in early 2024, Blanchard and Urker went on to welcome Aurora that December. Nonetheless, Page Six reported that the pair had quietly ended their relationship a couple of month earlier than his dying.
Blanchard Pays Tribute To Her ‘Eternally’ Soulmate
In an announcement Friday, Blanchard mentioned she was “in disbelief” as she struggled with the information. “I can’t suppose. I’ve screamed till my throat burns,” she mentioned. “Ken was an incredible father and a person who was deeply liked. He’ll endlessly be my soulmate and my crimson string, a connection that point, distance, and even dying can by no means erase.”
Blanchard additionally addressed the net therapy she mentioned Urker skilled earlier than his dying, naming TikTok and Reddit among the many platforms the place he confronted harassment. “Ken endured an unimaginable stage of public scrutiny and relentless cyberbullying throughout social media platforms, together with TikTok and Reddit,” she mentioned. “The cruelty directed towards him was one thing no human being ought to need to endure.”
As Blanchard mourns Aurora’s father, Anderson has requested her household to let her know she will attain out to him for assist.
